The big ‘O’ after babies
It’s okay that your body changes after babies. It’s not broken, it’s better!
After having babies, sex was different for me.
Okay, I said it. I didn’t feel myself, I was more self-conscious, and I couldn’t reach that big moment the same way.
Mr. Cullen and I were never against toys in the bedroom, but we never felt a need for them. We loved the challenge of helping each other reach the ‘big moment’.
Sex was still great, but I struggled with switching from ‘mom mode’ to ‘wife mode.’ Women reach their big moment best without distractions. We can’t worry about the baby waking up and embrace that big moment at the same time.
As the kids outgrew needing us at night, as often at least, I still had that inner voice making me paranoid I wouldn’t hear if my little one needed me.
This is when I started to look at lingerie and things during the day for fun. Fantasizing about sexy time was back in full effect! I kept seeing these toys, but I didn’t feel the need for them.
I was just curious about this thing that makes you happy.
The big ‘O’
Then, I started to learn more about my anatomy and my G spot. Well, I wanted to explore that more. So, after talking about it with my husband, we bought a toy!
It was like Christmas in July!
And the orgasm that night was explosive!
Now, we still discuss toys before we buy, but we do love exploring each other with the help of toys.
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